Many people, for many different reasons, see anger as sinful in every circumstance. I have heard, for example, people saying "we should be without offense as Christians." Does that mean that we shouldn’t get angry?
I believe that the clear teaching of scripture is that we are made in the image of God and we are to follow his example (see Eph 5:1). God gets angry at injustice and we should too. But the scripture says God is slow to anger (Joel 2:13, Neh 9:17, Ps 103:8, Na1:3) and commands us to be also (Jam 1:19, Mt 5:22). I think that we will see, from the following scriptures, that teaching or believing that we should not get angry leaves us in a dilemma.
The dilemma is this—either:
1. Jesus did not get angry, or
2. We are not supposed to follow Jesus’s example of life in every way.
I believe Jesus did get angry and I believe we are supposed to follow his example of living in every way. Christ wants us to be like him, hence the term Christ-ians (1 Cor 11:1 Imitate me, just as I also imitate Christ; also see Eph 5:1, 1 John 2:6 He who says he abides in Him ought himself also to walk just as He walked).
Here are passages clearly showing Jesus express anger:
Mathew 11:20-24 Then He began to rebuke the cities in which most of His mighty works had been done, because they did not repent: “Woe to you, Chorazin! Woe to you, Bethsaida! For if the mighty works which were done in you had been done in Tyre and Sidon, they would have repented long ago in sackcloth and ashes. But I say to you, it will be more tolerable for Tyre and Sidon in the day of judgment than for you. And you, Capernaum, who are exalted to heaven, will be brought down to Hades; for if the mighty works which were done in you had been done in Sodom, it would have remained until this day. But I say to you that it shall be more tolerable for the land of Sodom in the day of judgment than for you.”
Mathew 21:12-13 Then Jesus went into the temple of God and drove out all those who bought and sold in the temple, and overturned the tables of the money changers and the seats of those who sold doves. And He said to them, “It is written, ‘My house shall be called a house of prayer,’ but you have made it a ‘den of thieves.’”
Really Read Mathew 23:13-36, especially verse 33 where it says: “Serpents, brood of vipers! How can you escape the condemnation of hell?”
Do we really think that He delivered this without anger? Mark 3:5 says:
And when He had looked around at them with anger, being grieved by the hardness of their hearts, He said to the man, “Stretch out your hand.” And he stretched it out, and his hand was restored as whole as the other.
The Greek word for anger here is: g3709. ὀργή orgē; from 3713 ; properly, desire (as a reaching forth or excitement of the mind), i.e. (by analogy), violent passion (ire, or (justifiable) abhorrence); by implication punishment: — anger, indignation, vengeance, wrath. AV (36) - wrath 31, anger 3, vengeance 1, indignation 1; I.anger, the natural disposition, temper, character II.movement or agitation of the soul, impulse, desire, any violent emotion, but esp. anger III.anger, wrath, indignation IV.anger exhibited in punishment, hence used for punishment itself A.of punishments inflicted by magistrates.
The commentator, Finis Dakes, writes the following in regard to this verse: “[anger] According to some this would prove that Christ was not sanctified and that He had the "old man" in Him, but it only demonstrates that anger is not necessarily a manifestation of sin and Satan . Both God and man have it and will always have it (emphasis mine). Without it, man would not be capable of waging warfare against sin and Satan, so do not pray to be dehumanized and uncreated (emphasis mine), but pray to be able to control all faculties in the bounds of the law of God ( Gal. 5:22-23 ).
Mt 5:22 states "But I say unto you , That whosoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment." James 1:19 says "Wherefore , my beloved brethren , let every man be swift to hear , slow to speak , slow to wrath." Ephesians 4:26 “Be angry, and do not sin”: do not let the sun go down on your wrath,"
When we interpret scripture with scripture we must come to this conclusion:
A. Anger is good because God is good and God gets angry.
B. We are to be slow to anger and control it like God does.
C. We are commanded to “not let the sun go down on our anger,” This means we forgive daily
D. It is part of our humanity and part of the way that God created us.
E. It is essential if we are to recognize and respond to injustice
So, to put a bow on this teaching, we are to see that through scripture and the life that Christ lived, anger itself is not sinful and to be devoid of it wouldn't even be Christ-like.
-Mark